Wow. Right? It's been too long.

I have to really prioritize things in my life.  I've been online for three years?  What?

So, I have gone on some dates.  Amazing.  You'd think I'd of gone on hundreds by now.  Clearly not a priority.  I'll say that three months after I set up my profile I landed a genuine keeper of a job.  That's changed my life.

My mom's health took a steep decline. I started visiting her a lot.  It took all my spare time.  She died in late February. That changed my life.

My friend's mom found a guy online. I thought, really, she found love online that quickly? BTW, she's in her 70s, widowed just at a year when she met him.  Then I remember that others make choices that are unique to them.  Lucky lady, I hope.  This did not change my life, but did cause me to pause.

I recently started looking online again.  I'm also reading a few dating books including Love is Blind Only if You Are.  It reminds me to ask what I want vs. wondering whether he'll call back.  The other one is written by the millionaire dating lady.  It tells me to keep my hair long or men will think I've "given up."  What??